Blog Posts 2017-07-26T21:48:42+00:00

Thank you for visiting the Transformed Hearts blog that provides numerous articles to help support and encourage sex addicts, intimacy anorexics and their partners.  To learn more about sex addiction or intimacy anorexia, please peruse our website and blog at your leisure.


The Emotional Affair

Most often when one thinks of an affair or cheating, the assumption is that a spouse or partner has committed a sex act with someone outside their marriage.  However, this is not always the case.  [...]

By | December 7th, 2016|Categories: All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Emotional Addiction, Intimacy Anorexia, Marriage|0 Comments

From Childhood to Adulthood in Recovery

When you complete a recovery program or the 12 steps, does this mean you have arrived?  Are you cured?  Do you not have to attend another meeting, read another recovery book or see another [...]

By | November 23rd, 2016|Categories: All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Health, Personal Growth|0 Comments

I Cheated with my Best Friend’s Spouse, Now What?

  If infidelity and sex addiction were not complicated enough, one of the most complicated issues many couples face in sex addiction recovery is when one cheated with their best friend’s spouse. Most likely, their [...]

By | November 3rd, 2016|Categories: All Cory's Blogs, Disclosure, Marriage, Sex Addiction|0 Comments

Help, I think My Child is Addicted to Porn

You have tried to protect your son or daughter from pornography.  You have done all the right things as a loving parent.  You have filters on your internet service in your home.  As a family, [...]

By | September 22nd, 2016|Categories: All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Communication, Sex Addiction, Youth|0 Comments

Infidelity in my Parents’ Marriage! Now What?

For a minute, I’d like you to imagine with me that you are a minor or an adult child who just found out that one of your parents has been sexually unfaithful to the [...]

By | September 1st, 2016|Categories: All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Disclosure, Sex Addiction, Youth|0 Comments

Victimized Women & Shamed Men

Over the past few years when it comes to sex addiction recovery and helping couples, it has been a disturbing revelation to me that many recovery programs and mental health providers are perpetuating the [...]

The Rise of Transhumanism and the Fall of Genitals

"It's a Girl!" “It’s a Boy!” Generally, these are the first words heard after the birth of a child.  Three simple… little… words.  Words that describe gender that are based on whether the child [...]

By | August 10th, 2016|Categories: All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Transhumanism|0 Comments

Overcoming Comparison in Recovery

While I drive to work, I can compare my car, house, lawn, clothes and life before I get to the front door of my office. On a really good day, I can do all [...]