This category provides all blog articles written by Cory and Kerry Schortzman.

25 05, 2017

Passive, Anorexic Men Married to Assertive, Dominate Women

By | 2017-11-17T10:18:51+00:00 May 25th, 2017|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Communication, Intimacy Anorexia, Marriage|0 Comments

I see a theme with many couples I work with.  This theme is that of intimacy anorexia, love, sex addiction and codependency. Traditionally, it has been believed and thought that a man struggling with intimacy anorexia is to carry the burden and blame for not pursuing his wife emotionally, relationally, sexually and spiritually.  For [...]

4 05, 2017

Suicide: Shame’s Ugly Cousin

By | 2017-07-27T17:33:51+00:00 May 4th, 2017|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Shame, Suicide|0 Comments

As a teenager, sirens, flashing police and ambulance lights woke me up one night around 1 o’clock in the morning.  Growing up in a small mid-west town with a population of under 800 people, such activity was uncommon in our small rural community. The next morning, we discovered our neighbor’s teenage son, a high [...]

6 04, 2017

Custom Homes with Track Home Budgets (Investing in Your Marriage)

By | 2017-11-17T10:22:00+00:00 April 6th, 2017|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Divorce, Marriage|0 Comments

My wife and I love to look at homes around our community.  Dreaming about the future and seeing the changes in home technology, trends and building materials is fun for us.  There is something about a quality built home.  But how do you know which builders/contractors have integrity and deliver a good product and [...]

2 03, 2017

Understanding Apathy, Sympathy, Codependency & Empathy

By | 2017-11-17T10:35:04+00:00 March 2nd, 2017|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Communication|0 Comments

“I see dead people.” This is perhaps one of the most famous lines from the 1999 mystery thriller, The Sixth Sense.  As I remember the story, the main character, Bruce Willis, goes through the movie believing he also sees dead people like the little boy he meets. However, by the end of the movie, [...]

14 02, 2017

Lost Love, Addiction, Intimacy and My Vanishing Twin

By | 2017-11-17T10:37:52+00:00 February 14th, 2017|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Intimacy Anorexia, Vanishing Twin|0 Comments

I love to learn new things and discover information that is less well known.  I like to think outside the box to help my clients.  It has led to some helpful and not so helpful discoveries. Several years ago, I attended NET (Neuro Emotional Technique) training in Denver in a conference room filled with [...]

9 02, 2017

Epidemic: Teens Addicted to Porn

By | 2017-11-17T10:46:25+00:00 February 9th, 2017|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Sex Addiction, Youth|0 Comments

Pornography is no respecter of persons.  The viewing of pornography, nudity, or sexual acts is highly addictive to the brain.  It does not matter if you are male, female, transgender [Read the Rise of Transhumanism blog], young or old.  It will begin to consume you, as you consume it little by little, and then [...]